Showing posts with label Books. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Books. Show all posts

7/05/2015

In Memory


July 5, 2004 was a day that changed the Pfeiffer family forever. God suddenly took devoted wife and mother, Hope Pfeiffer home 11 years ago today. I did not know Hope, but I have the humble privilege of living every day with some of the people she loved dearest. At Samantha's graduation ceremony at the end of May I couldn't help but think about the undeserved privilege to enjoy one of the high points in a mother's life and yet Hope was not there to see it. She would have been bursting with joy to hear Samantha's valedictorian address, to crowd in for group pictures afterwards and enjoy dessert at Big Boy in celebration. And yet, she was not there.
 

In March of this year, Rob published a book entitled "Hope's Prayers". The cover of the book is a scanned image of Hope's prayer journal (looking carefully in the bottom half of the cover will reveal an impression of the words, "Family Prayer Requests/Answers"). The title of the book is comprised of letters in Hope's own handwriting that was extracted from her journal. The theme of the book is prayer. The main purpose of the book is to give Samantha and Michael a tangible way to know who Hope was. This book is a treasure. It is a treasure for two children who have been robbed of the chance to know their mother beyond the perspective of a 4 and 6 year old. It is a treasure for family members who miss Hope dearly. It is a treasure for friends who marvel at the survival of such a tragedy. It is a treasure for me who gets to, in Hope's place, love the children to whom the book is written.

In the pages of "Hope's Prayers" I learn intimate details of how

God carried some of the people that I love dearest through some dark days. I learn that my God has a perfect plan He is working out, even through pain. I learn that God answers prayer - sometimes years after the pray-er has died. It is through "Hope's Prayers" that I can identify a little better this year about the weight that 4th of July parades and fireworks brings to Hope's closest family. 



Many have asked how I feel about the book "Hope's Prayers". I suppose the inquiry is due to an awkward element of focusing on a first wife while being married to a second wife. I do not feel that awkwardness, however. I am thankful for "Hope's Prayers". The content of the book points my attention to a good God who not only worked in the Pfeiffer family in 2004, but also is working in the Pfeiffer family in 2015.


On this 11th anniversary of Hope's death, I am overwhelmed both by the joyous privilege it is to love Rob, Samantha, and Michael in her place and by the abundant grace of God which has been poured into my life.

Joanne

P.S. "Hope's Prayers" is available in paperback and electronic format via amazon.com and barnesandnoble.com


http://hopesprayers.com/ 
Hope's Prayers Facebook Page

5/04/2015

Hope's Prayers - a great Mother's Day gift idea

Samantha & Michael with their Mom, Hope. 
For anyone familiar with our family, you're probably aware of the incredible and sweet story behind Joanne's marriage to Rob (she details their engagement in 2 parts here and here). We were all so excited at God's leading and provision for Joanne (in a husband) and widower Rob (in a wife - and mother for his 2 children). But what I didn't know was much about Rob's first wife, Hope (the mother of my niece and nephew, Samantha and Michael). For the past 10 years, Rob has been compiling memories, letters, interviews, and poems in order to produce a special book - addressed to Michael & Samantha - about their mom. But even though it's written from his perspective to his children, it's also a very moving and accessible story for us "outsiders." I thoroughly enjoyed reading it as I traveled to South Carolina last week to spend some time with my parents (as my mom was recovering from major surgery). As I was expressing my thoughts about this story to my mom, the thought occurred to me that this would be a great gift for mother's day. So we're sharing some reviews here about it to hopefully pique your interest and give you a great gift idea. 
-Megan Albright-


Hope's Prayers, by Rob Pfeiffer, is available on amazon.com and Barnes and Noble online in both print and e-reader friendly versions (kindle & nook). 



REVIEWS FROM THE SISTERHOOD


Michael & Hope
Samantha and Michael have such a treasure in this book. They are able to read of their mom's life and many of her thoughts through her beautiful poetry. Their dad, Rob, so kindly lays out the many trials and lessons learned that their family endured. It's an encouragement to see the truths of Scripture woven throughout the book not only to admonish and advise Samantha and Michael as they prepare to leave home, but also to challenge us as believers in many of life's aspects. 
-Julie Rudie-

Last picture as a family
July 4, 2004
Rob Pfeiffer shares with his children, using their mother's own letters and poetry, insights into Hope's personal struggles as well as her growing walk with Christ, her Savior. Each chapter begins with snippets of the final hours of her last day. These snippets provide a compelling backdrop that draws the reader into learning more of Hope Pfeiffer's life.Then each chapter details their mother's life's journey as a daughter, wife,and mother. I believe the reader will learn along with Samantha and Michael that "life is hard" and sometimes "life is very hard," but Christ is the only hope.  
-Grace Albright-


As I read through Hope's Prayers I was constantly reminded of God's grace. Grace through strength and perseverance in trials and God's amazing grace over sin. It was a joy to see the truths of God's Word left to my niece and nephew, through the life of Hope. And, it was a great privilege to be allowed to look in as an 'outsider' and learn more about God's grace.
-Jill Dow-

Although written mainly for his children, Rob Pfeiffer's book Hope's Prayers is a beneficial read for anyone who encounters life's trials. The journey God planned for their lives was difficult, but God's faithfulness was abundant. 
-Faith White-

Through this book I was given much new insight into the life of the mom I barely knew. Also, I learned about what my relationship with God should be, based on her example. Never in my life could I have asked for a better gift.
-Samantha Pfeiffer-

3/27/2015

A New England Literary Adventure (with a birthday shout-out to Robert Frost)

A year ago, I got to do something that I'd been wanting to do for a long time. You see, even though I grew up in New England and the Mid-Atlantic region, and even though I've always been a heavy reader, I had never visited a single literary historic site in NE (and believe me, New England is especially full of them). So when my husband and I got the chance to be a part of 2-day conference in New Hampshire, he graciously allowed me to add an extra day on our trip to stuff in as much literary site-seeing as we could. 

The poor man didn't know what he'd gotten himself into. 


From all outward appearances (and probably according to most men), it was a long, miserable, boring day of looking at old houses and tombstones. New England at the end of March last year was, typically, cold and icy-rainy. So yes, it was 34 degrees and rained the entire day. And yes, we mostly stopped and looked at old houses and tombstones. But I had the time of my life! (And Joel enjoyed the benefit of numerous Dunkin Donuts stops - it wasn't all bad for him). So for those of you book lovers out there who would enjoy a quick peek at my trip (and perhaps get some inspiration for your own literary journey), here's my catalog of events. 


1ST STOP: ROBERT FROST'S FARM. DERRY, NH. 

Frost is unquestionably one of my favorite poets. Probably sounds a little cliche, but it's true. I love free verse ("Mending Wall" is a personal favorite - see below). The farmhouse itself was closed for the season, as were most of the places we stopped - most likely that ended up saving us money and time in the long run. I got a quick peek in the windows and sludged my way out back to get a fun photo op on one of Frost's own stone walls. I'm sure with all of those "fences," he was a good neighbor.

Sign out by the road (his farmhouse is right on a main road now); reading "Mending Walls" next to Frost's own stone wall; quick peek on the porch through the windows. Happy 141st Birthday, Robert! 

2ND STOP: ORCHARD HOUSE (ALCOTT), THE RALPH WALDO EMERSON HOUSE, AND THE OLD MANSE (HAWTHORNE). CONCORD, MA. 


Reading Little Women outside
of Orchard House
Clustered in the small downtown area of Concord, MA are the homes of famed authors Louisa May Alcott, Ralph Waldo Emerson, and Nathaniel Hawthorn. Orchard House is actually open year-round, so that was my one splurge. Joel opted out of the tour, preferring to sit in the car and read his own theology books while I paid the $10 to walk around Louisa's creaky but delightful homestead. It's not as large as I imagined (based on the Little Women movie and pictures I'd seen); but it had a number of enchanting nooks and crannies. Definitely worth a stop and tour in my opinion. 


Emerson Home
Emerson's home was another "closed for the season" location - so I risked my life posing on a busy street for a quick stop. The Old Manse (Hawthorn's home) was actually open for tours, but since we didn't want to pay another fee, I just ran and got a quick photo before the workers came out and asked for a "donation." From here, we went to a few outdoor (and free) literary scenes in Concord. 

3RD STOP: OLD NORTH BRIDGE, SLEEPY HOLLOW CEMETERY (AUTHOR'S RIDGE), AND WALDEN POND. 
Reading Emerson's Concord Hymn at
the Old North Bridge, Concord, MA. 

The next few stops were a tad miserable (hence, shortened) because of the weather. Joel and I took a little walk to get to the Old North Bridge, which crosses the Concord River - and is home to first battle of the Revolutionary War. If this sounds more like a "history stop" than part of a literary adventure, you must not be familiar with the Concord Hymn by Emerson. This poem, which I love, is actually the reason I wanted to make this stop, as I used it for a project way back in 6th grade. Now here I was, reading Concord Hymn "by the rude bridge." However, at this point, my fingers were stinging so badly from the cold that I could barely hold my book open - a small price to pay for my photo-op. 


After a few minutes thawing out in the car, we made our way through Sleepy Hollow Cemetery up to the aptly named Author's Ridge, so called since Louisa M. Alcott, Ralph Waldo Emerson, Henry David Thoreau, and Nathaniel Hawthorn are all buried on the same hill overlooking the rest of the cemetery. Literary lovers come from all over and pay homage, mostly by leaving cheap ball point pens at the various tombstones. I preferred to pay homage to one of my favorites by allowing my 1900 copy of Little Women a few moments of rest on its author's gravesite. (Believe me, in this weather, it was a sacrifice). Sometime, I'd love to come back in better weather and visit a little more of the cemetery. 


Sneakiest photo of the day:
Walden Pond
Walden Pond, our last stop in Concord, MA was closed-up in more ways than one. The site-seeing shop was locked and barred; and the walkway down to the pond was chained off with various signage threatening tourists and passersby to refrain from attempting to be the next Thoreau. So our stop here was more like a sneak-stop - we parked the car in a closed parking lot, ran across the road, and got a quick photo in front of the pond as a police car drove past us. We got out of there rather quickly. 

LAST STOP: LONGFELLOW'S WAYSIDE INN. SUDBURY, MA.
Our destination for the evening - and the highlight of the entire trip for me - was having dinner and taking up lodgings at Longfellow's Wayside Inn on the Old Boston Post Road in Sudbury, MA. If you're not familiar with it, the Wayside Inn, est. in 1716 and the oldest operating inn in the country, was the inspiration for Henry Wadsworth Longfellow's collection of poems called the Tales of a Wayside Inn (which includes his even-more-famous poem "Paul Revere's Ride" ... you know, "one if by land, and two if by sea" etc.). I enjoyed reading through the Tales during our dessert in the tavern (New England Indian Pudding - fantastic!), and then throughout the evening in our room. 


We paid a little extra to get one of the "special" rooms - room #10. When I first called the Inn to set up a reservation, the receptionist let me know about room #10, which has about 8-10 different spots throughout it that are more-or-less hidden and contain clues and notes from previous lodgers - a veritable treasure hunt! I found a number of these in our room, and eventually hit the goldmine when I opened up the antique chest in our room - absolutely full of letters. I dug around in the letters briefly and found some dating back to the 1970s and 80s. I made sure to write my own letter and leave it in the chest ... to be read upon my return someday. :-) 
3 of the hidden notes I found from previous lodgers: 
underside of a drawer, window ledge, and wooden beam in the closet. 


The "treasure chest" of letters

Breakfast at the Inn - complete with creaky floors
a crackling fireplace, and corned beef hash. 
The next morning, after a hearty New England breakfast in the tavern, we took a quick drive up to the Grist Mill - a mill built by Henry Ford and still in operation today, producing the flour and cornmeal that the Inn uses in its baking. I purchased a bag of cornmeal; and yes, it has made some marvelous cornbread throughout the past year. 


The Old Grist Mill - still in operation today

We had a flight to catch that afternoon, so that was the end of our literary adventure. I've still got a list of other authors' homes to visit someday; but for now, this was a wonderful day trip for me. I'd love to hear if you have your own literary stops to share with me - always adding to my list. 

So thank you, Joel, for humoring me and my book-nerd loves. It was an adventure I won't soon forget. And speaking of forgetting ... happy birthday a day late, Robert Frost!


Megan Albright, for The Sisterhood

11/30/2014

New Children's Books of 2014

Cyber Monday is upon us, friends.

So, before you panic over all of the options (especially if you're looking for some GREAT new children's literature for your kids), we'd like to highlight a few new books that have come out in the past year that we have loved, or at least our kids have loved in some way - and maybe you'll even be able to snag one as an Amazon Lightning Deal (cause who doesn't love a good lightning deal?). We read many new books, but these are the ones that were our "top picks" - included my Very Top Pick for 2014. (To see what that is, scroll to the end) 



NOTE: If you read this post today (12/1/14) and decide to get a book off of Amazon.com, TODAY ONLY you can use code HOLIDAY30 to get 30% off of any print book (yes, that's off of their already-low book prices. And if you're a Prime member, you can select their "No-Rush Shipping" and earn $1 credit- every time - towards kindle books, movies, or music). Okay, sales pitch over. No, we do not work for Amazon. Just excited about good deals. :-) 

Best New Children's Books of 2014 (IMO)

Have You Seen My Dragon
by Steve Light
  • Great for - boys, fantasy lovers, ages 2-5.
  • What I love about this book - I love the pen and ink drawings in this books, especially with all of the black and white pictures with the few colored characters/objects scattered throughout. The book is a little bit of a "seek and find" theme (even though the "dragon" should be found rather easily). But I also loved all of the "city" objects that can be identified throughout - a great teaching tool if you don't already live in a big city and see these things on a regular basis. 
  • What my Son loved about this book - my four-year old loved that this book was about a dragon. Simply put, he's into dragons these days. So if you have a son or child who loves dragons and loves getting caught up in all things fantasy, then they'll love this book. 


Maple
by Lori Nichols 
  • Great for  - boys and girls; siblings; any child who just got or is about to get a sibling. Ages 2-6. 
  • What I love about this book - EVERYTHING. Okay, so I'm prone to hyperbole, but my kids and I did really love this debut picture book of Lori Nichols'. So much so, that we already own it (daughter's birthday was in October, etc.) And not just this book, but the sequel as well (but I'm getting ahead of myself). Anyway, I love the soft, meticulous, beautiful illustrations. And the perfect depiction of little Maple, happily playing outside with "her tree" (you'll never guess what kind). And her realization one day that trees are fine, but little girls need more than trees for friends. And the new tree that starts to grow next to hers. :-) I'll stop there and let you finish the story yourself. But it's a sweet, fun story that we loved reading through.
  • What my kids loved about this book - Both of my kids loved this story. And my son really connected with the idea of being an oldest child and getting a "new sibling" (he's about to get another in a few months). In fact, he connected so much with this story that he is begging me to name our new little girl "Maple." We'll see what happens come February ... :-) 

Maple and Willow Together
by Lori Nichols
  • Great for - boys, girls, siblings, ages 2-6
  • What I love about this book - See comments above (more of the same). But I also love how this particular story perfectly captured the essence of real sibling life. As in, it's not all daisies and roses. But I especially love the resolution in this story - it's just sweet. And fun. And fairly realistic. :-) You'll enjoy it. 
  • What my Kids love about this book - They mainly love that we got another book about Maple. But it was also a good teaching tool, as my 4 and 2 year-olds are currently working through "sibling irritation" at very high levels these days. No, this book is not going to address how to best deal with your kids when they fight; but it brings up a perfectly portrayed scenario that you can use to start up a conversation (that's not in "the heat of the moment").


Go! Go! Go! Stop!
by Charise Mericle Harper
  • Great for - any kids, ages 2-6, kids learning colors
  • What I love about this book - I suppose I could say that I love that this book teaches the meaning of red, green, and yellow traffic lights. If I sound hesitant, it's only because this wonderfully fun book has induced a season of "RED LIGHT/GREEN LIGHT" (yes, the game) in our house that never seems to end. My son won't do anything now without me "giving him the green light." :-\
  • What my Kids/Son love(s) about this book - As I mentioned, my kids think this book is great. Boys will love it because it has lots of silly, fun-looking construction vehicles. And our daughter loves it because of the basic color scheme that she has started identifying - red, green, and yellow (at the very end). So if you are ready to play 38,000 games of Red Light/Green Light, then by all means, buy this book. (Seriously, I'm sure your kids will love it. I'm just green-light-ed out.) 

And the winner for my 2014 children's book list is ... 

The Christmas Tale of Peter Rabbit
by Emma Thompson
  • Great for - EVERYONE. ALL AGES. 
  • What I love about this book - So far, I haven't found anything to NOT love about this book. But here's my simplified list: 1) The AUTHOR - It's by Emma Thompson. She's genius, folks. Sheer genius. 2) The CHARACTERS - It's about Peter Rabbit. No it's not an original Beatrix Potter tale, but Thompson, like no other, gets as close as anyone could. 3) The PICTURES - Eleanor Taylor = another genius. They're beautiful, and look so much like original Potter paintings. 4) The STORY - it's such a fun story, and with so many fun, big words (just like our friend Beatrix would use). 
  • What my kids love about this book - Actually, they don't yet, But that's because it's very new, and I've been too cheap to actually purchase it (I've only read through it in a bookstore). But I'm lobbying for my mom to take care of this dilema come Christmas ... 
  • THE BEST PART!!! - This book comes with a CD of Emma Thompson herself reading the story. My kids are really into story-on-CDs these days. And I honestly can't wait to hear this one being read by one of my favorite actresses. It's going to be a winner. I am really really hoping this is a lightning deal tomorrow. :-) 

Well, I hope that helpful to you. If you want to know about any other newer books, just let me know. I can tell you that This is a Moose, The Pigeon Needs a Bath, and EIEIO: How Old MacDonald Got His Farm with a Little Help from a Hen did NOT make the cut (just not impressed, no matter what the reviews). But happy book-browsing either way - and may your reading days with your kids be merry and bright! 

Megan for the Sisterhood 

1/14/2014

Top 10 Books of 2013: Your 2014 Reading List

To you, reader: whether you are a book lover, a book liker, a slightly-ashamed-but-newly-resolved reader, or an almost non-reader, this is for you. I know. This is a slightly long-ish post. But I cut out a lot. Really. And I agonized over what to include, because I wanted to offer only the best. No, these are not the best books ever (well some of them might be). These are just from my reading this past year. I worked hard and really stretched myself in some categories (like non-fiction, Christian growth, and non-fiction). So here goes: my Top 10 Books of 2013 (otherwise known as Your 2014 Reading List**). 


FICTION

Alan Bradley’s 
Flavia de Luce novels 
I start with these because today I am FINALLY supposed to receive my pre-ordered copy of his 6th Flavia de Luce novel. I refer to them this way because Flavia is the heroine of his 1950s era Great Britain-in-a-crumbling-estate-setting mystery novels. She’s an eavesdropping, bike-riding, braces-wearing 12-year-old with a passion (and unique talent) for chemistry. After seeing a reference for the first novel, The Sweetness at the Bottom of the Pie, in WORLD Magazine 6 or 7 years ago, I fell in love with this series. Books 2-6 have been eagerly anticipated and pre-ordered by me (little fact being that these are the only books I’ve ever pre-ordered). And I’ve never been disappointed. The list (in case you want to start at the beginning) is as follows: The Sweetness at the Bottom of the Pie, The Weed That Strings the Hangman's Bag, A Red Herring Without Mustard, I Am Half-Sick of Shadows, Speaking from Among the Bones, and finally now The Dead in Their Vaulted Arches. 
(For anyone wondering about the unique titles, they are all from lines of either poetry, literature, or very old cookbooks – fascinating.)

The Thirteenth Tale, by Diane Setterfield 
While we’re on mysteries, I must mention Diane Setterfield’s The Thirteenth Tale. A friend of mine recommended it earlier this year, and I’d summarize my reading of it by saying that I completely neglected my house, laundry, husband, and (almost) children for about 3 days while I read this book. It’s riveting and eerie and completely surprising, no matter how many mystery novels you’ve read. I’d classify it as more of a gothic-style mystery, along the lines of a Jane Eyre or Wuthering Heights. Very Bronte-ish. NOTE: If you have small children, hire a babysitter for a few days when you plan to read this.

The Good Dream, by Donna VanLiere 
I actually first read this novel in 2012, but I loved it so much that I purchased my own copy, and accidentally-on-purpose read it again recently. You know, one of those moments where you’re dusting the bookcases and pull out a book, and oh, just start glancing through it, find a favorite chapter, spend 20 minutes reading, then decide to just reread the whole thing. And the dusting doesn’t get done for another week. (I’m sure by now you must think me a very irresponsible mother and housekeeper – but I promise it doesn’t happen often.) I have a more in-depth review of the book here.  In summary, though, I highly recommend this emotional and heart-gripping novel to all readers, especially Christian readers. Though this is not a Christian novel, it is one that causes me to rejoice in how I’ve been rescued from the ravages of sin.

Margot, by Jillian Cantor 
This was my most recently-finished novel, dealing with a “what-if” story of Anne Frank’s sister. What if Margot Frank had really survived? What might her story have looked like? I requested this book from the library, and it took over 3 months until I finally got it (so after that long wait, I KNEW I had to read it). Margot was hopeful and sad and enjoyable and heartbreaking all over. But I’ve always enjoyed imagining “what if” kinds of stories, particularly at the ends of books I don’t want to be done with. So Jillian Cantor successfully published a “what if” daydream – kudos to her. (I did feel after reading this that I knew more about WWII and the holocaust – probably because it’s a subject I’ve slightly avoided. And no, I’ve definitely never seen Schindler’s List.)

Hannah Coulter, by Wendell Berry 
My last fiction recommendation, and I’ve saved the best for last. I cannot even begin to share how much I LOVE this book – love love love!! It is truly one of the great novels in my reading life. But BE WARNED: What you are (or should be) about to read is not some Hunger Games type of mind-gripping, page-flipping novel that you fly through like a can of Pringles. It is a slow and thought-filled book written by a poet-novelist, with each sentence being something that you sit there thinking, “Wow. That was so good. That’s how my brain’s been trying to communicate all of these years. Yeah.” Like eating a piece of Chocolate Mousse Cheesecake, savoring each bite, and letting the chocolate layers just sort of drip down your throat, and afterwards, being so full that you can’t bear the thought of moving or having to function normally. You'd rather just sit there, slowly digesting, and meditate on the experience of eating it all over again.  

That is Hannah Coulter – the real-life-love-story that I have been waiting all of my life to read – something authentic and deep and going beyond just “one person happily ever after riding off into the sunset.” That’s because Hannah Coulter is more about community than just one couple. As Hannah, an 80-year-old woman, says of her first husband when they were planning to be married, “The love he bore me was his own, but also it was a love that had been borne to him, by people he knew, people I now knew, people he loved. That, I think, was what put tears in his eyes when he looked at me. He must have wondered if I would love those people too. Well, as it turned out, I did. And I would know them as he would never know them, for longer than he knew them. I knew them old, in their final years and days. I know them dead.” I realize I’m probably dragging this on a bit, but if you’d like, here's  another compelling case for reading Hannah Coulter.

NON-FICTION

Killing Lincoln, by Bill O’Reilly & Martin Dugard
Trying to break outside of my box, I disciplined myself by reading a few non-fiction books this year, one of which was Bill O’Reilly’s Killing Lincoln. Think history book meets thriller novel. While the information contained is well researched and accurate, the book reads like a John Grisham novel. Hopefully that doesn’t discourage anyone – if anything, it should encourage any other non-non-fiction readers like me to try it. I followed this up with O’Reilly’s Killing Kennedy, another fascinating non-fiction novel that really piqued my interest in this era (and even caused me to start doing some more outside research – weird).

Booked: Literature in the Soul of Me, 
by Karen Swallow Prior 
Here’s another piece of Chocolate Mousse Cheesecake for you … or maybe more like a T-bone ribeye (because this one takes a little bit of chewing). I finally get to put one in the “memoirs” section (another category I’ve sorely neglected). I’m not even sure how to describe this. But as a bit of information, Ms. Prior is Christian, an author, and an English professor at Liberty University; and in this memoir, she reflects on the impact that books have had on her life, including her coming to faith in Christ. I know that some Christians have been disappointed at the seeming “lack of straightforward testimony” that she offers in this. But I think if you read her accompanying interviews as well as other things she’s written, you’ll get a better sense of her faith – and the point of her book. It’s not an autobiography; it’s a memoir with a specific emphasis – the written word – and how words, and THE Word, have all shaped her into who she is today. Intriguing. I wish I was smart enough to write a book like Booked. 

BIBLE STUDY & GROWTH:

A Sweet & Bitter Providence, 
by John Piper
I picked up this book earlier last summer in preparation for a 4-week Bible study with some teen girls on the book of Ruth. As usual, I had numerous options to choose from on Amazon, but for me, a lover of words, I chose Piper (fellow English major that he is). I’m starting to run out of effusive words to describe all of these lovely books, so I’ll be brief: this book is wonderful, a great resource for studying this short book of the Bible, and brings some new perspective on a story I thought I knew well. NOTE: I used this book along with my former pastor Drew Conley’s 4-part sermon series from sermonaudio.com found here for our study – these two items complimented the study brilliantly.

Modest: Men and Women Clothed in the Gospel, 
by Tim Challies & R.W. Glenn 
As part of a year-long study in our youth group through the Seven Checkpoints for Student Leaders by Andy Standley, my husband and I recently taught through the topic of “moral boundaries.” For a few of the sessions, I met with just the girls to talk through the issue of modesty. I wrote a longer review of this book here, but simply put, this is a fantastic resource for … everyone. Not just teens. Not just unmarried women. Not just women. EVERYone. It’s short and sweet, but thorough and deep – and no, there’s no “guidelines” or “checklist” in here. So if you’re looking for a quick fix, I’m sorry. Gospel-centered issues tend to take a little more work than that. So yes, definitely read this. J

The Gospel Transformation Study Bible 
gen. ed. by Bryan Chapell 
Last but best, I have a new study Bible that I’m excited about … but no, have not entirely read yet. But I’ve started. And yes, I’m really enjoying it. Basically, the study notes for this particular Bible all try to keep the big picture (aka. the Gospel) as the focus throughout. So for example, as I was reading through the story of Sodom & Gomorrah the other day, the notes read, “The interaction between God and Abraham, whereby the hypothetical number of righteous people in the city is whittled down from 50 to 10, underscores that God will not destroy the righteous along with the wicked. … The trouble, of course, is that before God’s eyes none are truly righteous. Yet Jesus Christ underwent the punishment deserved by fallen people by becoming guilty in their place (2 Cor. 5:21).” It has been a blessing to read and use. I am thankful to the ladies at my church for gifting me with this wonderful resource.  

And I hope, in maybe some way, these reviews and recommendations were helpful to you and might inspire a new journey in reading for you. If you have any specific questions about any of these books or want information regarding objectionable elements, etc. you are welcome to email me. Thanks for reading! (And yes, if you read this whole post, you can definitely read a book.) 

Megan
for The Sisterhood

ps. Stay tuned for a book giveaway. 

**DISCLAIMER: Not all parts of all books are completely endorsed by me or The Sisterhood. Reader discretion is always advised. 

MODEST: Men and Women Clothed in the Gospel


by Tim Challies & R.W. Glenn

Let me start by asking a few questions I recently posed to our church teen girls: 
  1. Can you dress immodestly and be sinless?
  2. Can you dress immodestly and be sinful?
  3. Can you dress modestly and be sinful?
These 3 questions were the start of a 3-week study on Gospel-Centered Modesty that we did on Wednesday nights based out of this book, MODEST, by Tim Challies & R.W. Glenn. Although I had certainly heard a number of “talks” and “sermon excerpts” regarding modesty throughout my growing up years, I’d never read a book specifically devoted to the subject. That may be because the very few resources out there seem to be nothing more than the same set of rules and guidelines that I grew up hearing and knowing about. 

However, this book is completely different - no lists, no “guidelines” - not the slightest bit of practical help for me as I tried to work through this topic with the teens. I knew everything I was reading was good and helpful, but I was starting to get a bit impatient and frustrated with the seeming lack of practical application. And it was at that point that I finally just stopped, and started over (the book is short enough that it wasn’t too much wasted time). I realized that instead of really trying to understand the point of the book, I was, unfortunately, just looking for some easy answers to give to our girls instead of doing what I’d set out to do - give them a Gospel-Centered way of working through this. In case you haven’t figured it out by now, Gospel-Centered is rarely a quick and easy list of “do-this-don’t-do-this.” 


As Challies puts it, “Modesty is a virtue that shows love to others and brings glory to God by appropriate dress.” Does that seem vague? Maybe at first. But in reading this book, you’ll find that immodesty is an issue whether you are old or young, wear dresses and sweaters or shorts and tank tops. Modesty will always want to bring attention to God and God-alone. So anytime I am not actively doing that, I’m being immodest, whether in speech, dress, or conduct. This short book does a really fantastic job of truly getting to the heart of the matter - idolatry - and helping both teens and adults (women AND men) to think through the issue of modesty from a biblically gospel-centered approach. I highly recommend it to all women, both for yourselves and as a good discipleship tool. You can get it here for $9 for a paperback or $5.50 for a kindle. Another great book to read that would supplement this well is Idols of the Heart, by Elyse Fitzpatrick. 

Megan
for The Sisterhood

Book Review: The Good Dream

The Good Dream 
by Donna VanLiere

About a year ago, a friend and former colleague of mine (also an English teacher) asked if I had any good books out there that I’d recommend for a book club she had joined, but with the following criteria: 1) it couldn’t be a “Christian Fiction” book (as this was for a meeting with all unbelievers except herself); 2) it couldn’t be “too deep or long”; and 3) it needed to have some kind of Gospel themes or truths in it that she could use as a means to engage in Gospel conversations with the other women. At the time, I had nothing to recommend – I read a lot of non-Christian fiction, but most probably qualified as either too long or too deep (most of it not current fiction).

That request was the springboard for me to start doing some more reading – into more current fiction that I could use as a means to engage biblically with the culture of those around me. I gleaned a number of book ideas from places like WORLD Magazine (a Christian publication with a number of book reviews) and from the blogs of theologians like Russell Moore and Albert Mohler – I greatly appreciate theologians who read. One article in particular by Russell Moore really helped me affirm why I as a Christian could and should read good fiction that is not necessarily written by other Christians. As he states, “Good fiction stories aren’t a ‘waste of time’ because … they are rooted in an endlessly creative God who has chosen to be imaged by human beings who create. “ (If you want to read the whole article, click here.) And I am now excited to have added a number of books to my library that meet all the criterion: good fiction, not too long or deep, and with some great Gospel themes.


One of the first books I read (that was recommended in WORLD Magazine) was one that I got from our local library entitled The Good Dream, by Donna VanLiere. When I first began it, I had no idea of the emotional journey that it would take me on. I’m not what you’d call a “crier” when it comes to books and movies (although I’ve gotten more so since having kids). But by the end of this book, my heart was in knots and my throat was full of lumps (note: non-criers have to be strong, especially if someone is in the room watching you read. Hence, lots of lumps.) 

It’s a beautiful story, set in the Blue Ridge Mountains of 1950's Tennessee, and centers around Ivorie Walker – an unmarried woman in her 30's who has recently lost her aging parents. She has her own home, works a garden, and makes weekly visits to the nearby General Store and to various townsfolk. Picturesque, right? She’s like many of us, quietly working through life while maintaining a mode of security and respectability, even while enduring the normal trials. But what she doesn’t expect is to be confronted with an outcast boy whose mere presence challenges her to get outside of her world. However, by taking on this challenge – the challenge of all Christians to minister to “orphans in their affliction” – she is threatened with losing everything: her home, her reputation, even her life. And by the end the reader knows that Ivorie will stop at nothing to rescue this little boy from the pit of depravity he’s trapped in. As I sat there later, reflecting on this story, I couldn’t help but see the parallels: Someone willing to sacrifice everything – home, reputation, even life – to rescue me from the ravages of sin. All I could think was “Hallelujah! What a Savior!” This story reaffirmed the message of the Gospel for me in new ways – ways that only made me more thankful and humbled at what my rescuer did for me. I am thankful that there is this kind of truth in many works of fiction, even non-Christian fiction, as we are all image-bearers of God. And so I’ll continue to search for these affirmations of Bible truth as I read – and pass them along as I do.

Megan
for The Sisterhood